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Discover your hottest life with author, speaker, coach and adventurer, Mrs. Hot.

It's time to unleash your Inner Goddessbecause we're not older, we're bolder.


Why exist an existence when we can live a fabulous, sexy Life à la Hot?

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Hot Inspiration and Updates from Mrs. Hot​​​​​

Alexandros, Part IV: Fight AND Flight
IN WHICH I EXPERIENCE LOVE AMONG THE RUINS. Alexandros grabbed me by the hand and hurried me away from the[...]
YOU Are The Love Of Your Life, Valentine!
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Alexandros, Part III: Zorba the Creep
IN WHICH I'M SMASHED, AND I MAKE SURE SOME PLATES ARE, TOO. Zorba took my hand and led me onto[...]
Alexandros, Part II: Go Big Or Go Homer
IN WHICH THERE WILL BE TENTACLES OF ONE KIND OR ANOTHER. After our initial taxi dance, Alexandros and I hadn't[...]
Alexandros, Part I: Alexander the Great
IN WHICH WE'RE GOING TO ENJOY AN EARLY SPRING. When Apollo had left me at the airport, mere seconds later[...]
Presentation Is Everything, Part IX: Hair–In Tresses We Trust
IN WHICH I CONSIDER THE BENEFITS OF BEING STRANDED. Hair is sexual, plain and simple. When Delilah cut off Samson’s,[...]
My Big Fat Greek Vacation, Part XI: When Pubic Goes Public
IN WHICH MY DROPPED DRAWERS DRAW SOME DROPPED JAWS. Apollo thought it was funny I cared so much about getting[...]
My Big Fat Greek Vacation, Part X: The Throes and Throws of Passion
IN WHICH CAUTION -- AND OTHER THINGS, ARE THROWN TO THE WIND. Apparently, the helicopter had strayed from its assignment[...]

Meet Mrs. Hot

My heartfelt mission is to unleash the Inner Goddess in all of us, so it is my pleasure to help you liberate your personal Force of the Feminine. It’s all good — and it’s all good, clean and dirty fun — though here and there I might discuss a serious topic, like sexual healing, or releasing toxic people from our life. Because we need to illuminate and dispel the dark before we can shine our brilliant light of fabulous out into the world. After all, we’re not here to simply exist. We’re here to live — Life à la Hot!


As a child, my female identity was wounded. Between my damaged sexuality, low self-esteem, toxic habits, body issues, and a lifetime of abandonment of different kinds, I had plenty of challenges — actually, opportunities for growth — to take on in my later years.

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